at 13st 13 and you can't begin to comprehend the embarrassment and disgust I feel. Having said that there must be a million other women who feel like this but in my head I'm the only one who is fair fat forty1 and repulsive and has more spare tyres than a garage (joking belies the misery).
However some of the patients and some relatives were trying to guess my age and they all had me twenty to twenty three years younger than I actually am, and they all guessed independantly of one another.