anyway I don't think he is either he shows no signs of fucking men or women for that matter he maybe uninterested in sex and not wanting to do it with anyone i wonder why this has happened and it tend to blame myself and that won't help his crippling fear of sharing with another can i talk to him about it and offer comfort and not derision today i will walk about and make this hard decision we don't talk about this sort of thing we leave it well alone we leave it to the experts and stay alone at home