Sup,
I have chosen to share some holiday pix that I took and maybe even a video. I may have to work on the video before I post it. The pix I can post right away. There are only a few so enjoy. Also, I hope you all had a splendid holiday. I didn't do anything terribly exciting. I spent time singing with my mom, gossiping with my sister, and biggin' out with my brothers. I also spent time with Jack (my Shihtzu), watching movies, and communicating with friends and family via phone and phone messaging.

I have got to update you on my love life... John is pissing me off again. But I don't want to take away from my blessed day, so I will not talk about him tonight.

ciao

P.s. RIP Eartha Kitt... you were an insprtation to many, an entertainer to others, and a ground breaker to everyone!

Sup,
Well its officially one week till christmas.I have a tree and haven't decorated it yet. I'm not really sure if I will. I had went to Target a few days ago and did an about face when I saw the prices for the tree lights. Yes some may call me cheap, but actually I was being frugal. Last year I purchased about six boxes of lights from the dollar store. While it was tricky draping the mini lights around the tree, it worked.

So when I went into Target and saw the store commanding upwards of $9 or more for a decent set of lights, with about 70 bulbs, I had no intentions of spending the money. I mean we usually throw away the lights anyway to prevent any fire hazards. Its quite possible my sister may purchase lights, but I won't be the designated purchaser.

Anywho, I haven't bought many gifts, as a matter of fact, I've only bought two. One for each of my younger siblings. I suppose they deserve something. I will also buy my mom something to tide her over until January, since her birthday is only two weeks after the wintry holiday. She is fully aware of what is to come, so no guilt here.

Ah I must share some info about the love life. I am still hanging out with John. He has become a better corner stone within the past month than in recent years. We have hung out and per the video, you know that he accompanied me to one of my physical therapy sessions.

Last Saturday, he text me to call one of my girlfriends to hang out with his buddy, so that we could hang out (his friend had the whip). I complied, even though it was late and I wasn't in the mood to go out. I called a gal who used to work with me and had moved to Florida and had recently returned to the tri-state area. She was free and willing to meet a new guy and so out plans were set in motion. This evening, that turned into an all night affair, would be the first time I had been on an outing since my accident.

I made arrangments for the guys to pick her up and then travel across state lines to be with me. We decided to go to a lounge for a round of drinks. The lounge was so boring, so we decided to get something to eat and then we headed back to my pad. We ended up watching "This Christmas" with Chris Brown and other talented actors. After that movie went off we caught the end of "I Am Legend" with Will Smith. I presumed the fellas would want to get going, since it was close to 5am by this time.

The gal then made a suggestion to me... why don't they stay for the next few hours and leave at a more decent time of the morning. The main person to get into agreement was John, since he was the only one who had to get up and work the next morning. It didn't take much convincing from my end... he agreed and we snuggled up in the potty room and then my bed.

Although I liked being in his arms, it became uncomfortable after awhile. His smooth arm soon felt like a heavy log (kisses sweety). I laugh now, but in the moment I wanted to move his arm. I can see why some men complain about the cuddling up part. Love it when you do it, but it has to be kept to a minimum, otherwise body parts may start to fall asleep.

I have more to discuss on the "John" subject, but I will tell later.

ciao