The majority of women think its strange. Yes, its true. But is it really that strange? Lets explore this further shall we?
Maybe your idea of a perfect day off is to slip into some silky lingerie and a dress, paint your nails, and read a hairstyle magazine.
Is that strange? Absolutely not!
Perhaps you dream of being caught by your beautiful neighbor while you're prancing around in her panties. She wants to teach you a lesson that you’ll remember for the rest of your life. So if dressing up as a girl is what you want-so be it. You are shaved, perfumed, put into the sexiest lingerie you’ve ever seen, forced into a very tight dress, and taken to her beauty salon for makeup, a manicure, and a pedicure. Once completely feminized, the woman tease you to tears, take pictures, and put them on the internet for all your friends to see.
Is that strange? Hell no!
How about a sissy, slut fantasy? You are captured by a group of gorgeous, Amazon beauties and thrown into a van. Helpless to resist, you are restrained, blindfolded, and taken to a large house in the middle of nowhere. They transform you into a total, sissy slut, and parade you around like a toy. Large, soft, breast forms fill out your blouse and your tiny skirt barely covers your red, satin panties and garter belt. Pink, fur covered handcuffs tether you to a post in the middle of the room, and a local football team cums over to show you a good time.
Is that strange? Oh on the contrary, its the Superbowl and you’re the star!
“But Miss Teresa” you may ask, “What if my girlfriend/wife is one of these women that thinks its strange? Then what?”
I recently got a DVR and could not figure out how to hook it up to the Internet.I bought and returned 2 wireless adapters and was really frustrated.Fortunately my neighbor Susan’s told me her brother was in town for a visit and promised to send him over to help.He’s a computer programmer in Manhattan.I had heard all about him and couldn’t wait to finally meet him.Last night I got my chance.
A well built,good looking young man arrived at my door and introduced himself.
“Hi,I’m Robert.You must be Teresa.”
“Hi Robert,I’ve been expecting you!Please come in and save me from throwing my shoe through my TV!”
“I promise you it will be a piece of cake.”
“I’m usually so good with these things,I even have a website I designed myself.I’ll show you later if you’re interested.”
“Sure,that sounds great.What kind of website is it?”
“Oh we can get to that later,I want to see what I’ve been doing wrong.Can I get you a glass of wine or something?”
“Yes,thank you.I’ll have this done in no time.”
“That would be fantastic,its here in the living room.Let me get you that drink.”
“So Robert,are you married?”
“Do you have a girlfriend?”
“Not at the moment,no”
“Hell No,why did you ask that?”
“Well to be honest Susan thinks you might be gay.”
“My sister thinks everyone is gay.”
“Ok,I was just curious why such a good looking guy from the big city is still single.I didn’t mean to be so nosy.”
So can you get that thing working?”
“Not a problem,you just needed a different kind of adapter.I’ll be done in ten minutes.”
“That’s great,thanks for coming over Bobbi.Can I call you Bobbi?
“Uh-yea,sure.No ones called me that since,well no ones called me that in a long time.”
“Since Susan used to dress you up as a girl every Halloween?”
“She told you that?”
“Oh yes.She even gave me copies of the pictures!All six different outfits!Let me get them-oh look they’re right here.
Here you are as a cheerleader.Then a nurse.Oh I like this one,you made a very cute ballerina!And a French Maid-Wow!How old were you in that one-maybe 14?I cant believe you wore the complete outfit,stockings and everything!
Then you were a cheerleader again only this time your tits are bigger and your makeup is perfect!And the last one is my favorite.Are you supposed to be a hooker?With that tiny skirt and those heels I’ll bet you could have made a fortune that night!”
“Susan used to make me do that,that was the last time.”
“Isn’t that interesting.She told me that you used to beg her to dress you up.And that you even shaved your legs as you got older.”
“I’m almost finished with this,where is your computer?”
“Follow me Bobbie,I mean Robert.”
“Let me show you my website before you unplug my router.Have a seat next to me.You might like this,its for boys that like to dress up as girls!
“Why are you so surprised,have you seen it before?”
“You did a story for me-I can’t believe this!”
“Oh really,which story?”
“Wow that was you!That’s one of my favorites!And you wrote the whole thing out so well.It was almost like it happened to you!”
“Actually Teresa its my fantasy.It never happened.”
“Would you like it to happen Bobbi?Would you like to be dressed up and pick up a cute guy?Or as you said in your story a whole group of guys?”
“I-I don’t know if I could actually do that.Its just a fantasy Teresa.I’m suddenly feeling really embarrassed.”
“Don’t be sweetie,it would be so much fun!You can wear your sisters clothes again,you’re both the same size!”
“She cant know about this.”
“Believe me Bobbi,she already knows.And Susan’ a professional now,she even has her own salon.Besides,its not like you’d be the first guy that we’ve transformed into a beautiful woman!”
“I don’t think I can go through with it,thanks anyway.”
“Nonsense!Look at you-is that a USB drive in your pocket or are you just happy to be sitting next to me?”
“But I’m afraid,what if someone finds out?”
“Listen to me:you can’t go through your whole life being afraid of doing what you want because of what people might think.We’re going to do this and you’re going to live your dream!
Now repeat after me:My name is Bobbi and I’m just a little slut and I don’t care who knows it.Go ahead!”
“My name is Bobbi and....”
“Softer,lower your voice and say it softer.Picture yourself in a really hot dress with matching heels and perfect makeup.You’ll have silky panties on and you’ll be primped,perfumed,and oh so feminine!”
“My name is Bobbi and I’m a little slut.Oh your crazy Teresa,this is crazy.”
“What’s crazy is dreaming about something and wishing for it and not having the guts to do it!Now finish hooking me up and go home and shave.Tonight’s your lucky night.Is that clear my little slut?
I started out as a model and have been in the fashion and entertainment industry for over 20 years. Later on I became a makeup artist and have met all kinds of people in every walk of life. Soon men began coming to me for advice about clothing and makeup and I figured it was just harmless fun. After all, that was my job-to make people look their best. It turned into a full time career helping them become the girl of their dreams and I loved it as much as they did! Over the years I’ve also found that many men have fantasies of being forced to wear women’s clothes, to have no choice but to be dressed in a lacy bra and panties and act like a lady often in front of a group of women. This fetish is commonly known as Forced Feminization.
It most often involves a situation where they have no choice but to obey my wishes. The threat of blackmail is a very popular theme. For example, you are caught stealing my lingerie from a laundry room or clothesline and I threaten to call the police. You plead with me not to and promise to do anything I ask if only we can keep this our secret. And being the understanding person that I am I will give you a choice. Either I teach you a lesson by dressing you up from head to toe complete with makeup, and possibly a trip to the beauty salon or have you arrested. As strange as this may sound it is a huge fantasy for millions of men all over the world.
There are as many different levels to this as there are fetishes. For some the highlight is simply to be threatened and to agree to the consequences. For others the thrill is the slow but thorough feminization which they are powerless to stop. Many men also like the humiliation aspect of this and it is necessary to complete their experience. Of course some want to take it even further but that is not something I do.
I have found that if something like wearing women’s clothing gives you pleasure and doesn’t hurt anyone else then by all means enjoy it. The problems that arise stem more from the guilt and confusion that so many of these people feel. For their whole lives they were taught to ignore these feelings and act like a man while part of them wants to wear a cocktail dress and heels and sing “I Feel Pretty”!
This is where the idea of “Forced” comes in. If they are forced to do it, and no longer have a reasonable choice then the guilt is removed and they can be free to enjoy it. It is no longer a choice but a consequence. Brilliant! Problem solved!
There is still a tremendous amount of conflict though and as a makeup artist and Dominatrix I feel it is my role to help out in any way I can. I even started a website featuring personalized audio stories in which I narrate their fantasy that they can play on their iPod, computer, or stereo. While some men actually have a closet full of dresses and enjoy this fetish, many others just fantasize about it in between beating themselves up for thinking about it. I feel that by having their secret fantasy on an mp3 that they can listen to whenever they want I am providing a safe and easy way to explore what turns them on. If later on they decide to start wearing panties to work under their business suit and it makes an otherwise miserable job a bit better then my work is done.
As a side note there is one thing I have to insist on. If you do decide to wear panties please buy tasteful ones! Never buy ones with little sayings on them and under no circumstances ever but seven pairs with the days of the week on them.That’s just wrong!
I’ve been in the makeup and fashion industry for many years now and I started to come across men who would ask me for advice on clothing and things. Before I knew it I was helping them become the woman of their dreams and I loved it as much as they did! Now I’ve started a website catering to the cross dresser. I also found that a lot of men are into forced feminization. It seems to be easier for them to accept their love of dressing up and acting like a girl this way. I’ve always felt that if something like that will give you pleasure and it doesn’t hurt anyone else then go for it. And if your going to do it do it right! I truly believe that to be happy you have to try new things and take chances.On the other hand not everyone looks good in a skirt and heels! I wanted to provide an easy way for people to enjoy their deepest,darkest, secret fantasies without having to shave their legs,unless they want to. A good friend of mine talked me into recording his fantasy for him to play in his car and he loves it. It’s the first story I recorded and it’s on the story page of my website. This led me to begin creating personalized erotic audio recordings of all kinds.